Friday, December 9, 2022

Transformation time

 It seems that many things have been keeping me away from this space. I guess it's actually more appropriate to say that I have been allowing things to keep me away. Caring for aging parents has been the focus of the last few years. I am hoping now to shift that focus back to myself and my husband. 

We are currently in a place that needs massive removal of stuff. As my parents moved out of their house into a senior living community, we took on some of their items that we weren't certain if they would eventually need. We also have a friend consolidating in preparation of selling her home. She had some really nice pieces, especially in her kitchen, that came to us. Now we need to donate and dispose of all our not so nice pieces to make room. Plus, I have accumulated plenty of things over the three years here that are no longer useful or necessary. All that being said, decluttering is not an easy task. I'm mean that's pretty obvious from the myriad number of websites and suggestions that come up if you google it. For the record, my favorites are The Minimalists and (12) Joshua Becker - YouTube if you're looking for places to start.

The most helpful thing that has happened recently is a deadline. We have a twin bed in our place that needs to go to my parents' place, and the queen bed there is coming to us. It was ours to begin with, so it's just coming back home. The problem is while it was gone and a smaller bed took its place, we filled the empty space...and then some. That switching of beds is to happen at the end of the month when we have some strong help in town to visit, so now I have a deadline. Wish me luck. 

Friday, March 4, 2022

Life Changes and then some

 Hello friends,

It's been quite a while since I've been on here to write. The main writings on this blog for a long while were to try and keep myself sane while my husband went through dialysis and the a kidney transplant. As an update to that, he is doing well.  We been over five years now and he hasn't had a single rejection episode. Since then, we moved slightly north and east, South Carolina actually, to assist my parents as best we can. The day we signed the lease on our new place, the lockdowns began. As probably most of you experienced as well, we have just been doing our best to stay healthy and be of service while we all navigate this grief filled time. My hope and prayer is that as we continue to find our way forward we continue to find ways to be kind and supportive to each other. I don't know anyone who hasn't had a rough couple of years. May the next few to come be blessed. May we all find new ways to be resilient.